Matt Ortile discusses Groom Will Keep His Name in conversation with Fran Tirado

Those who purchase a copy of Groom Will Keep His Name will also receive a pocket square from The Tie Bar and a book plate personally signed by Matt Ortile.

When Matt Ortile moved from Manila to Las Vegas, the locals couldn't pronounce his name. Harassed as a kid for his brown skin, accent, and femininity, he believed he could belong in America by marrying a white man and shedding his Filipino identity. This was the first myth he told himself. The Groom Will Keep His Name explores the various tales Ortile spun about what it means to be a Vassar Girl, an American Boy, and a Filipino immigrant in New York looking to build a home.

As we meet and mate, we tell stories about ourselves, revealing not just who we are, but who we want to be. Ortile recounts the relationships and whateverships that pushed him to confront his notions of sex, power, and the model minority myth. Whether swiping on Grindr, analyzing DMs, or cruising steam rooms, Ortile brings us on his journey toward radical self-love with intelligence, wit, and his heart on his sleeve. (Bold Type Books)


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ISBN: 9781541762794
Availability: On Our Shelves Now
Published: Bold Type Books - June 2nd, 2020
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